Compromising...Good or Bad???????

This was the day when i started thinking about my life and the responsibilities i have and also the world i which i'm living. Most of the time, my mind was wandering about what am i going to do in life and how i'll be recognized in future by the society. I don't know what i really need. One thing was sure that i should never give up my mom and brother for any cost. But at the same time, wat kinda life am i going to live in the society. Am i willing to live with great honour among people or just a simple life enough to take care of my parents is enough. One side was the powerful life and on the other side , the peaceful. Which shud i choose. At that time i realised that decision making is the toughest and the important job than anything in the world. As time by carrying this thought, i cme to know the fact of life. What ur situation now, is not tomorrow and what u'll be today may not be tomoro.. So planning in life is needed. But at the same time we can't execute all our plans at the fixed time. Times is the greatest deciding factor of ur plans. We shud act accordingly.

As time goes on, we start to learn to compromise things. What was better yesterday will not be today. Today's fruits will be tomoro's wine. As nothing is permanent in this world, how can our ideas be then..We are forced to compromise things.. But if we accept to compromise, then we will be the happiest man. If we still stick to the old one,then u'll be stopped in the journey of life. 

Again some may feel that they had choosen the wrong choice in life that they are unable to succeed in that..That is not the fact actually.. Their choice was correct at that time. But now as the situation changes, they've to compromise the things and adapt to new things in life. 

Those who succeed will say that they made it as there was support from family and friends. But think of those who dont have family and friends and they still are succeeding in life. How is it possible??? Because those who have family and friends succeed in their past ideas which was previously planned.. But the one with neither family nor friends winning in life has the secret of life.. He may not be successful in achieving his aim...But he has succeeded in adjusting to life and learnt to compromise the things. There lies the success of life and the real happiness..

And the best happiness in life arises when ur decision or compromisation blossoms others' lives. It's a godly thing and there is nothing to compensate that.............................

So u must have known whether compromising is good or bad..Comment ur answers.........

The way to success..

There is no one in this world who hates success. People follow the path of succeeded people and they hear their words for their betterment of life. Some say that god gives me this victory and i dedicate this to him. Some says, my hard work pays. Some says that it's because of the support from my teachers, parents and siblings. Atheist says, for all my success, the sole reason is me only and there is no role of God in that. Think of theist who succeeds and the atheist who also succeeds to the same extent. They both must have tasted the fruit of success..Theist may wonder on seeing the success of atheists and they question themselves about how they can also succeed without believing god..
The answer behind this is LOVE. Ya. One should love himself and also the others. Helping the needy once a day is far far better than worshiping 3 times a day and visiting temple daily. It's not that whether u believe in God or not. It's the thing that, whether God loves u or not. If we are kind enough to the needy and suffering people, then the window for success and to the eternal life is always open. And the existence of God is on the way one looks at him. Here is a small example for that.
A person went to to saloon. When the barber is cutting his hair,they both had a small chat..
Here is the conversation.
Barber: Do u believe in God??
Man: Yes, I believe.
Barber: I don't believe.
Man: Why? What's the reason?
Barber: See.In earth, there are people suffering a lot and they dont even have the basic things like food, shelter and clothes. Why God couldn't wipe their tears. On seeing this and all, i decided not to believe in God.
Man has nothing to reply for his statement. After finishing the hair cut, he went out of the shop. He saw a beggar with big beard and hair not been cut. He looks as ugliest as possible. He saw him and went inside the barber shop and told the barber that there are no Barbers in this world.
On seeing this, barber realised the thing.. I thing you would also have realised the thing behind it. It's all what we see and what we believe. No one had seen God. But its their belief and no one can blame that.
The ultimate thing is, if u r kind towards your fellow beings, then your purpose of life is done and you are on the way to success. For atheist, love is God and for theist, God is love. So whether u r an atheist or theist doesn't matters if u r lovable and loving one.

THE START OF A JOURNEY-- My First Post

Hai Friends.

Hai.its just three days more for my 21st birthday. Very happy to make a blog.
But don't know wat am i gonna scribble here..Lets see that later..Feeling drowsy as its now midnight 12:01am. Bye 4 now..